He is distinct in his likes and dislikes, cool like the wind of late autumn, and graceful like a deer in the forest. He may not be likable, but he is free. The charming jerk lives with confidence, dignity, and principles. He would never secretly practice sinister and evil skills like the “Nine Yin White Bone Claw,” nor would he privately train in self-harming and self-torturing techniques like the “Sunflower Manual.” He does not resort to underhanded tactics or use others as pawns; he is not afraid of being alone, nor is he afraid of crowds. He strives to learn the upright and righteous “Eighteen Luohan Palms” and the profound “Yi Jin Jing” to defend against open attacks and preserve his warmth and integrity.
At a young age, he seemed to have “aged,” possessing a warm, stable heart that is also full of wrinkles from frowning. Over time, he gradually becomes young again, youthful like a fearless jerk. He is like the deskmate from your school days: if you talk to him during class, he raises his hand to inform the teacher; if you play pranks on him during breaks, he goes to the administration office to report you without hesitation. Yet, he is the one who excels academically, leads on the sports field, is favored by teachers, and remembered by classmates, despite appearing unapproachable and not very warm. Besides his external excellence, he also has inner strength; he can unabashedly confront those he dislikes and openly express his feelings to those he loves.
So, please take care of yourself and become better on your own, looking after your body and soul, reading, exercising, cultivating your character, striving to gain knowledge, broaden your horizons, and develop your own perspective. Even if your social media posts receive few likes, even if you are being marginalized by a small group, even if you are not up to date with the latest popular TV shows, even if you never click on trending topics on Weibo… all of this is not a big deal. Do not let your life be filled with exhausting and unappreciated conversations, and do not worry about having to follow any particular crowd. If there is anything truly worth winning, it is respect, not mere approval.
